Looking back on the few memorable events of 23, take this opportunity to review the actions of 23.
Life#
- Overall, family life tends to be stable, and the performance in the roles of husband/father/son is barely satisfactory. Thinking more than doing.
- Married to my wife for 5 years and known for 7 years, now referred to as dad by the child, doing less and less as a husband, can't feel the word "care" anymore.
- The child suddenly clings to me, but I don't know how to be a good father, often feeling anxious and powerless.
- At the end of June, my mother underwent surgery for atrial fibrillation, and I didn't accompany her to the hospital throughout the hospitalization, which was inappropriate. In a blink of an eye, I already have elderly parents and young children, mentally feeling like a child, not taking on the responsibilities and obligations I should have.
- My body started to give warnings, had a kidney stone surgery in the first half of the year, found kidney stones in the year-end physical examination, and occasionally felt chest tightness in the heart, not paying attention to exercise and being too lazy.
- The relationship with my brother has improved, emotional intelligence still needs to be improved.
- In October, I set up a personal blog, synchronously write for WeChat public account and Xiaohongshu, the original intention was to make some money, hoping to persist.
- Started listening to podcasts on the way to work, realizing that my knowledge is too limited, feeling more and more the gap in abilities and the inadequacy in actions.
- Completed the family budget for 24, and started to really keep accounts with my wife, gradually improving the stability of family finances.
Work#
- The company's operation has encountered some problems, everyone is worried, hoping the company will get better, but no idea what to do.
- Did some meaningful projects this year, widely applied in business, but personal growth has clearly slowed down, unsure about the future.
- Planning to create my own studio in the future, currently have no idea where to start, how to break down the goal, and how to prepare.
24-Year Plan#
- Read 6 books (one every two months, hoping to complete), improve emotional intelligence to provide more stable emotional value for the family.
- Reduce weight to 130 pounds through exercise, improve health, and enhance the family's risk resistance.
- Break down the goal of creating a studio, take the first step, and slowly start trial and error.
- Financial returns for the whole year 4%